Betrothal Gift Exchange (过大礼) is the day where the groom

(with his friends or matchmaker) delivers the betrothal gifts

 to the bride's family and often the items to be exchanged in a Chinese

Customary Wedding depend on the dialect group.

 

i didn't take the full photo cos i was quite pissed off with his "bff" that day!

totally no mood at all.. i will remember this forever.. thanks for being his "bff" 

forget it.. dun wanna get angry becos of this kind of xiaoren.. karma will find him!

 

the cakes from Gin Thye Cake Maker

Apart from returning half the gifts the groom's family has given,

the bride's family will also present the bride's dowry (嫁妆),

which is mainly interior ornaments or daily necessities. This is also

an opportunity for the bride's family to display their love for their

daughter as well as their wealth.

 

this photo nicer cos i wake up early to arrange and take photo! haha

 

- 2 F&N orange

- 8 oranges

- 3 angbaos (his birthday, pants, return some of the 娉金)

- 2 gold necklaces, 2 gold bangle from my parents

mummy return 4 cans of pig trotters and 2 boxes of cakes 

and a portion of the 娉金 back to B

 

the rest of the items is bought by me..

so not inclusive.. not enough red baskets lol

 

there is 2 pairs of 龙凤蜡烛, 子孙灯, 龙凤碗筷, 针线包, 子孙尺,

red sleeping wear, towels and bedroom slippers.. that's about it~

 

 

 

the things that i'm in charge of is finally over!

final ending part is all B's work already..

hope everything goes smoothly on his side =.=

 

Florist / Red Wine - his friends

Reno of room / Emcee - his uncle

arrange for bed delivery

 

** reno cost covered by his uncle

yeahhhhhhhhhh save money!! $$$

have to clear all things by this weekend

 

have to find a day to an chuang too!

 

meet up with Unique Colours yesterday

we will be shooting a short video with them on 19 Feb!

can't wait.......... so excited!!

 

 

 

and B managed to negotiate with his father

that we will go down to the store to help out fri-sun only

everyday sleep at 12-1am.. i will die *_*

 

if fri we going out then we will give him back on a weekday loh..